Being "The Other Woman"?

If you have feelings for this guy, let him go so he can work on his marriage. Because he can't work on his marriage if he is boinking some P.Y.T. Or thinking about boinking her. The grass always looks greener in a new fresh relationship. And it much easier to cast off the old without working out the problems and just get on with the new. I'm not going to slay you or make you feel bad, because human beings make mistakes. But I am telling you that you are on the verge of making a big one. Stop it before it goes further. Both of you. He shouldn't be backing up his words with anything, because he made vows to his wife and should honor those above all else. You don't want someone in your life that can't do that. So find a man (a single one) that's your age to call your own, and let him solve his problems by dealing with them instead of hiding from them.